I guess in fact everyone has a little 'judge' in them, but really who am I to judge anybody?
Or even we to judge for that matter? however I guess really based on when i first met you, I couldn't understand why, or how you go to where you are? I felt like you were using your past a crutch to make people feel bad for you, I felt your over-confidence was just a facade to really make yourself believe that you had some. It turns out I was wrong to judge and some of my assumptions may have been true. But maybe i wasn't judging after all..
either way im sorry, because it could've cost me a friendship